Whatever you do, just make sure you do not confuse “nice” with acting needy and insecure. Don’t be nice because you seek a woman’s approval. Be nice on your OWN terms. As I always say, sure, people can “like” you because you let them walk all over you, but it doesn’t mean they will respect you.
In fact, they probably like you “just as a friend” because you don’t matter to them at all – and that’s the last thing you want when you are trying to get a girl. As an assignment, I want you to get out a piece of paper and a pen and write down what qualities the jerk has that make them fun and strong. Then think about how you can adapt these traits without becoming a jerk yourself! Examples: – Self-Centered (Translate it as knowing what you want and going for it.) – Cocky (Translate it as acting like a challenge.) – Loud and rude (Translate it as acting confident.) – Chauvinistic (Translate it as acting dominant). – Unpredictable (Translate it as being interesting.)
Now go and finish this exercise on your own!
Marius Panzarella is the creator of Dating Secrets Revealed: The Smart Dating System he is recognized as one of the leading web dating coaches and has helped over 60,000 men lead better lives and success with women